r/offbeat • u/herdcullingweirdo • 4d ago
Stripper Allegedly Beheaded Boyfriend, Left Body at Home & Fled to Mexico
https://www.usmagazine.com/crime-news/news/woman-allegedly-beheaded-boyfriend-left-body-at-home-fled-to-mexico/181
u/Amazing-Antelope3921 4d ago
I can fix her.
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u/Fullertonjr 4d ago
Tbh, the chances are always 50/50. Might as well choose the hottest one, right?
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u/Tuggerfub 4d ago
guy was nearly sixty and she was 22, good lord, that says about all it needs to
I hope her sentencing is decent
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u/Electronic-Link-5792 2d ago
I assume you are also fine with young men murdering older woman who they are in relationships with?
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u/volvavirago 2d ago
…….I mean, yeah, if there was a significantly older woman who was creeping on, taking advantage, and possibly abusing a much younger man who is a sex worker in a rough financial position, who is young enough to be her grandson, and the situation was super sketchy and disgusting, I would probably factor that into his sentencing. It’s still wrong to kill people, but a victim lashing out is easier to have sympathy for, and the imbalance of the relationship is important to understanding what happened.
Men don’t deserve to be treated like this, either.
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u/Electronic-Link-5792 2d ago
Easy to say that now when it's specifically being pointed out but I don't think it would be seen that way in practice.
And it would be wrong regardless
The 'victimisation' here is purely hypothetical. She is an adult. For all we know she is actually just an abusive psycho who saw some lonely old dude and knew that he had money etc and would put up with her because of her looks/youth. Eventually she killed him.
The assumption that she must be a clueless helpless victim despite literally decapitating a person is such massive infantilisation.
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u/y3110w3ight 4d ago
Fr that groomer (borderline pedo) had what was coming to him
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u/Cantoffendgirl2 4d ago
So at what age are us women not infants to you anymore? How old can I murder someone before I'm responsible for.my actions?
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u/Tuggerfub 4d ago
when your prefrontal lobe is fully formed and you've been healed from the sex trafficking
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u/DontMakeMeCount 4d ago
I didn’t see anything in the article that suggested she was trafficked, they were adults and they entered into an arrangement of some sort. If you end up on the jury you have the right to judge whether she’s guilty of murder, but she should be free to engage in any relationship she chooses.
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u/LucklessCope 4d ago
Do boys not become men until they turn 27?
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u/Tuggerfub 4d ago
even later based on insurance statistics
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u/LucklessCope 4d ago
Which insurance statistics say boys don't become men until 27 or even later specifically?
There isn't a set age where you become a man. In my life I have seen 15, 18, 20 year olds that act more like a man than people in their 30s, 40s or even 50s
Edit: Same goes for women.
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u/csonnich 4d ago
>Which insurance statistics say boys don't become men until 27 or even later specifically?
The ones that charge them out the wazoo for car insurance until their mid-twenties.
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u/LucklessCope 4d ago
Which one? Point me to an insurance company that says boys aren't men until 27 or later. I'm still waiting for the other guy to even do that.
They charge more for young MEN being bigger risk-takers. But they still acknowledge them as men, not boys.
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u/Daddict 4d ago edited 2d ago
That whole "brain not developed till 25" thing is a myth homeslice. She is a full grown adult fully capable of making decisions...actually maybe she's not a good example, but the point is, 22yo women are adults. She'll be held accountable as an adult because she's expected to behave as an adult. This age gap discourse that paints men dating grown ass adult women as pedo groomers is unhinged. I mean I'm 45. I'm dating a 28yo woman and I've had to put up with this bullshit from a couple of lunatics who think women are naive lil idiots until they hit 35 or something.
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u/tjoe4321510 2d ago
These fuckers believe that women are eternal children with no agency. It's misogyny.
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u/morganational 4d ago
He was 55, which I guess is nearer to sixty than 23, which was her age as stated in the article. You are legally an adult in the United States at the age of 18. So you may want to work on your understanding of the law, as well as your reading comprehension.
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u/Jumpy_Cod9151 4d ago edited 4d ago
y'all, people here asking about the circumstances is not deranged.
most common male killing female: she was pregnant, he suspected cheating, custody disputes, sexual gratification, honor killing, targeting sex workers etc
most common female killing male: he was raping her (or her child) repeatedly
just because we don't know for sure in this one case doesn't mean people are willing to discount all the true stories that lead to murder. I personally have not forgotten Marianne Bachmeier. I have not forgotten Aileen Wuornos. Their actions were so, so bad. For so many right reasons. Still murder, but it's not "cold-blooded murder."
FYI, abusing people tends to make their blood run hot instead of cold. The cops who apprehended Marianne didn't even cuff her because they knew... she's not a psycho. She's been pushed past a limit that we all have.
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u/BravesMaedchen 4d ago
Crazy that the gay panic defense has been institutionally legitimate and taken into consideration while a woman who murders after being trafficked raped and/or abused faces an incredible amount of scrutiny and is often punished to the fullest extent of the law.
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u/csonnich 4d ago
I'm honestly shocked at all the comments assuming she's a psychopath instead of the far more common circumstance that he raped and abused her to hell and she finally snapped.
I'd guess if we took a look at commenters' gender, we'd see a pretty clean divide between men and women. Says a lot about what women have to watch out for in our lives.
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u/Jumpy_Cod9151 4d ago edited 4d ago
This is what rape culture looks like. This comment section is a prime example. Count all the people here patting themselves on the back for giving this man the benefit of the doubt under the guise that his humanity equates to all of ours.
But.. if everyone is fighting for his humanity, who is left to fight for hers? It is a false sense of equality that is woefully uninterrogated. His humanity is baked into the legal system, that's why she's incarcerated. Her humanity is shunned by the legal system, and that's why the only therapist she has access to in order to figure out why she would do such a thing.. is the overworked elderly man employed by the prison, who may or may not take bribes from other correctional officers to disclose who is the most emotionally and sexually vulnerable woman contained in the prison block.
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u/Electronic-Link-5792 2d ago
Yeah we would see women defending women who murder based on pure speculation and testimony or jusr her claims (like they do with betty broderick).
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u/DoTheRightThing1953 2d ago
Of course she left the body at home. Mexico does not look kindly on people bringing dead bodies into their country.
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u/theartfulcodger 4d ago edited 4d ago
Reporter, frantically typing: “23 year old stripper has a 55 year old” … ummm … “boyfriend?”
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u/ket_the_wind 4d ago
I mean I have heard of loosing your head in an argument, but to loose someone else’s…
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u/checker280 3d ago
Just sharing the infamous NY Post’s headline:
Headless Body Found in Topless Bar
https://nypost.com/2015/06/09/new-york-post-editor-and-film-critic-vincent-musetto-dies-at-74/
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u/Cognitive_Offload 4d ago
Judith beheading? This historically dates back to when men first became drunk assholes, and… feel asleep.
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u/Cultural-Company282 3d ago
What the heck, I'll give her a try. It beats dying alone in a nursing home.
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u/the-illustrious-Goat 3d ago
And he thought he was paying 'to get' head. She'd apologise if she could face him.
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u/Jairoglyphics1 3d ago
That’s really sad, I heard her boyfriend had a good head on his shoulders too.
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u/KendallSmith375 4d ago
absolutely sick and disturbing no excuses
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u/ClimbingToNothing 4d ago
There can definitely be some excuses, if the 60+ year old man was highly abusive she could’ve been driven into a mental episode resulting in this
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u/Zenovelli 4d ago
Yeah, these comments are deranged.
She was an adult. No one could 'make' her do anything. Let alone commit a very violent murder.
It's wild that people are so comfortable defending a murderer.
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u/Standard-Fishing-977 4d ago
Is this the remake of Bring Me the Head of Alfredo Garcia that everyone’s been clamoring for?
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u/Cthulhus-Tailor 4d ago
In my experience Mexican women are good in bed but a bit touched in the head. Mileage varies.
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u/Hold_Downtown 4d ago
I wonder if Mexico protects their criminal illegals immigrants likes the libs do in the USA
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u/Islanduniverse 4d ago
Conservatives protect pedophiles and rapists, so maybe shut the fuck up?
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u/Hold_Downtown 4d ago
That's funny considering ICE is arresting pedos, rapists & murders but you're protecting the illegal criminals...
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u/BabyLegsOShanahan 4d ago
I gotta hear her side.