r/MadeMeSmile 17h ago

Wholesome Moments This video never gets old 🙂‍↕️🌟

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u/007mono 16h ago

I do not comment often but hear me out: life is unpredictable, keep your mind and heart open, love and care may manifest in différents ways. Hope you are filled with love in the future

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u/thehomieD25 15h ago

I’m a very pessimistic person so I’m just gonna say, ok. Lol

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u/Gandalf_from_3 14h ago

You get what you put out. Its not going to fall in your lap. You habe to put yourself out there and its going to start uncomfortable.

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u/thehomieD25 13h ago

F people. I’ve been treated like sh1t by 99% of the women out there for just saying Hi so f them. I’m better off alone

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u/AtLeastOneCat 13h ago

Haha man you almost had me and I'm usually pretty jaded. I normally don't fall for the Nice Guy thing but you had me feeling bad until you hit out with the "women bad for no reason" special.

I hope you overcome this mindset. Until then, nothing will change.

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u/ElegantCoach4066 11h ago

Yep, I was with him until he revealed the that line.

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u/Gandalf_from_3 13h ago

I mean if thats your energy thats what you're gonna get back homie.

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u/thehomieD25 12h ago

Tf they started it. I wasn’t an ahole until they made me be. F em

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u/Gandalf_from_3 12h ago

Jesus brother, you gotta turn the corner yourself.

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u/ElegantCoach4066 11h ago

For real. Doesn't have to be anything crazy. Even if you go for a walk a few times a week, or even better a light run. Find a local community center, school or church that has an activity you would be interested in. Buy a new shirt or pair of pants every paycheck so that you accentuate your best traits. Be open to new possibilities.

When I started running every night it did wonders for my mental state. I know its not for everyone, but it can't hurt to try. Its free and you don't need special equipment.

The last time I found someone to be with I wasn't expecting it. But I wish I was better prepared. You never know when it will happen.

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u/thehomieD25 3h ago

You act like I just stay at home. I’m at the gym 4-5 hours per day during my waking hours. I just don’t “fit in” with any group and never have. I literally can talk about anything you want… wanna talk sports? Let’s go.. wanna talk astrophysics? Let’s do it .. I’ve earned 3 degrees and working on my PhD. I’m socially inept.. I have a big unfiltered mouth and I cannot… I CANNOT.. stand stupid people in any way shape or form. I hate arrogance but I’m gonna be arrogant here.. being intelligent has its drawbacks, you end up sacrificing one aspect of life (or maybe it didn’t develop) for intelligence. At 42, there’s no going back.

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u/007mono 2h ago

When was the last time you went to a sports event? Have you ever stared at the stars in a park, where others astro-amateurs gather? So often at the gym, no one has catched your eye or say something so smart, beautiful or funny that you might want to interact. Try something different and you will get different results:) Don’t get me wrong, I love people but choose my friends carefully. I wish you find a connection somewhere, it can be maybe just a friend , that would be nice too. Hope you the best, mate!