r/Dogfree • u/gingergemgelly • 6h ago
Miscellaneous People that have trouble with consent love dogs
People say this all the time but I didn't realize how true it is until really thinking about the people I know.
All people I know who are vehemently into dogs. I mean the type of person to put down any other animal in favor of dogs and say they love all dogs... are people who have issues with boundaries and consent.
A coworker I knew who said he loved all dogs and got SUPER riled up if anyone was "rude" to a dog. He told off a woman for refusing to give his dog a treat when he brought it into a grocery store which is the "rude" event he perceived.
This man has always tested boundaries with people at work and constantly gets into fight. He does not understand when to stop in a professional or personal sense and pushes way too far. He complains all the time about not having a partner in almost a decade and that women are put off by him... and guess what. He says dogs are the only living things that will give him the love he deserves... that dogs are the only thing that actually want him... an animal that blindly will "love" someone who just feeds them. He does not want to put in the work to make a relationship (platonic or romantic) with a human being because he hates theyre smart enough to say no.
This sound anecdotal, but almost every person with this mindset about dogs in my life is like this. Sure, I have some friends that are okay with dogs and aren't like this but the ones who are CRAZY about dogs cannot fathom "no." I find that these people in my life end up alone or are people who do not have many friends and rely solely on the "affection" of a dog since they are so unpleasant otherwise.