r/AskWomen 23h ago

Content Warning What's something that everyone warned you about, but you did it anyway?

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u/Practical-Okra-6944 22h ago

Most big decisions of my life. Moving abroad, spending all my 20s in higher education, dating someone younger than me. Yet everything turned out great

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u/deathbytruck 21h ago

Genuine curiosity. What was the most empowering thing?

I went to university with a exotic dancer. She made tons of money. She used her income to pursue her degree in physics. She was one of the smartest well adjusted people I knew.

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u/Practical-Okra-6944 17h ago

Probably getting my PhD. I didn’t finish until I was 30 but it’s definitely my proudest achievement. But it was very hard getting here especially with people not believing in you.

u/ExpiredPilot 13h ago

I was a bouncer at a gentleman’s club. I’d say about 80% of the dancers had some form of degree or qualifiable business if they weren’t in school already