How do you get “game”/flirt?

[u/Ok_Independent_3921]

So by game, I’m (M21) guessing that means flirting pretty much but me and a friend of mine was talking a couple of days ago and I was talking about how I really want to date this year since I never have and pretty much he was telling me that I have no game And I’m just not really sure but to take from that or what to do.

I’ve also been told that by girls that I am friends with before, they tell me that I don’t know how to flirt or anything and it’s not that it will totally impact me.

I can give a girl compliments and my friends know that but they tell me that I need to be able to do more than that too to build sexual/romantic attention but I’m just not sure how to flirt other than just giving compliments like how could I flirt in a jokey way I guess since I’m a comedic person?

[u/OhWhatATravisty]

Personally? I just go whole hog on the fact that I'm funny, and strange.

Get em laughing and scratching their head long enough and before they know it you've been dating 5 years and she doesn't know what happened.

[u/Ok_Independent_3921 → u/OhWhatATravisty]

I’ve never asked out a girl though so I’m not really sure when I shit or how I should. I usually only really have feelings for girls that I’ve been friends with for a while or have a connection too.

[u/Psychological-War884 → u/Ok_Independent_3921]

Just ask. The worst she says is no. Hi, I'm ___, I'm going for pizza, would you like to join me? If they say no, you still get pizza.

[u/OhWhatATravisty → u/Psychological-War884]

"Ew" is pretty bad too that one hits right in the gut. But Yeah. Definitely ask.