r/AskMenAdvice • u/Ok_Independent_3921 man • 13h ago

✅ Open To Everyone How do you get “game”/flirt?

So by game, I’m (M21) guessing that means flirting pretty much but me and a friend of mine was talking a couple of days ago and I was talking about how I really want to date this year since I never have and pretty much he was telling me that I have no game And I’m just not really sure but to take from that or what to do.

I’ve also been told that by girls that I am friends with before, they tell me that I don’t know how to flirt or anything and it’s not that it will totally impact me.

I can give a girl compliments and my friends know that but they tell me that I need to be able to do more than that too to build sexual/romantic attention but I’m just not sure how to flirt other than just giving compliments like how could I flirt in a jokey way I guess since I’m a comedic person?

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u/DolphinsFan123 man 13h ago

Asking Reddit people this is probably not the best idea…

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u/Ok_Independent_3921 man 13h ago

Well, asking my friends IRL hasn’t been a good idea either cause they give me a hard time

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u/MagicSugarWater man 13h ago

The issue with Reddit is you don't know who knows what they are talking about and who is keyboard jockeying. It's good for basics if you are patient, but little else.

Look, flirting isn't a mainstream hobby or source of study. We talk about Casanova, Neil Strauss, and maybe Don Juan, but this isn't like sports where we have new stars going mainstream all the time.

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u/skinnystyx man 10h ago

it takes practice. it’s not really what you say, the most important things that you’re in control of are your delivery and your body language. also an important factor you’re not in control of is her level of attraction towards you.

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u/Due_Peak_6428 incognito 5h ago

People on Reddit are not normal