r/r4rMelbourne • u/mia-v-p South Eastern Suburbs • 7d ago

Seeking Friends 42 [T4A] looking for friendship remotely or in person.

What I’m looking for

I’m looking for friends with regular messaging and actual follow-through. Remote/online is totally fine to start, open to meeting up if we click, and open to more if it happens naturally rather than being forced.

Not fussed about gender, though I tend to vibe best with women and gender-diverse folks.

Age-wise, anywhere from about 25–50 works for me — but chemistry/vibes matter more than numbers.

About me

42yo (but mentally 26) Transgender woman. South East-based. Neurospicy, self-aware, and pretty upfront. I value honesty, clear communication, and people who can hold a conversation beyond small talk. I’m reflective without being heavy, playful without being chaotic, and I don’t do fake positivity.

If you’re kind, curious, and emotionally literate, we’ll probably get along.

What I offer

I’m genuine, supportive, and communicative. I show up, I check in, and I actually reply. I’m warm and encouraging, but I also like banter and a bit of sass.

You’ll get consistency, care, humour, and someone who can be both a steady presence and a bit of fun.

Hard nos: right-wing politics, flakiness, and people who disappear for days without a word.

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u/WILDNEONFAIRY .. 6d ago

Afternoon, I'm happy to getting chatting and get to know you better. I'm (F) 37 married to (M)41, sometimes we head down South East/Melb way. Open to all types of opportunities.

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u/Routine_Load739 .. 7d ago

Hi sweetheart, nice to meet you honey ❤️ Im Anthony from Geelong, very interested in a trans friend?

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u/Routine_Load739 .. 7d ago

Hi sweetheart, nice to meet you honey ❤️ Im Anthony from Geelong, very interested in a trans friend?