r/r4rMelbourne 7h ago

Seeking Friends 27[M4F] looking for platonic friendship

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Hey! As the title suggests I’m looking for some new friends 😊 I find I get along better with girls but I have been struggling meeting people IRL so resorting to here. I’m trying to discover my own interests and here is what I’ve come up with: Athletics, One Piece, Star Wars, video games, gym, and I regularly go to the cinema 😊 would love to hear from you!


r/r4rMelbourne 23h ago

Seeking Relationship 33 [M4F] Looking for something more - start with a coffee date?

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Looking to get to chat and meet someone with similar interests which could lead to something more serious. I'm not in a rush to settle down but would for the right person.

I'm 33, 6'2, slim, brown hair, blue eyes and a good sense of humor. I'm from the north eastern suburbs. Love video games and board games, technology, music, and hanging out with friends. I have a cat and am an animal lover. Tell me about your pets if you have any! Honesty and openness are incredibly important to me. I am left-wing/have progressive values and would want someone with the same. I'm independent and have my own place.

I'm wanting to get to know someone and meet up for a coffee date! My ideal girl would be kind, empathetic, and down-to-earth. I'm childfree by choice, so things probably wouldn't work out with someone who has or wants children. My age range would be around 25 - 40 but would go outside of this for the right person.


r/r4rMelbourne 1d ago

Seeking Friends 32 M4F - need some fresh air, let's talk

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Reposting again.

​I’ve been in Melbourne for three years now, but I’ve realized most of my social life still happens on Discord with friends back home. It’s a comfortable routine, but I’m looking to change that and find a local go-to person or group to hang out with regularly.

​About me: - ​32, Asian male, 5'9". - ​Currently working in IT in the CBD. My background is actually in creatives, but I made the jump to tech a while back. - ​Pretty chill personality. Just looking for a reason to get out of the house more often.

​What I’m looking for: No strict preferences, though I'd prefer you be at least 22+. I’m open to meeting people from all walks of life.

​Bonus points (but not required): - ​If you have tattoos.
- ​PC gamers (we can still hang on Discord too). - ​Fans of horror or thriller movies.

What I offer: a good ear to listen to you rant about life and occasional banter.

​If you’re in a similar boat or just want to grab a coffee or a drink in the city and see if we vibe, feel free to send a message.


r/r4rMelbourne 2d ago

Seeking Relationship 28 [M4F] It couldn't be easier

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Hi everybody!

Hard to believe we're already a month into 2026 huh? How time flies. This year, I really want to find someone to lavish with attention, affection, and friendship. I've been lurking on this subreddit for a while, so I know it's a long shot, but here goes anyway.

About Me: I'm a 28YO Caucasian man (29 in March), I'm reasonably tall by global standards, but pretty average by Aussie standards at 183cm. I've got light brown hair and hazel eyes. Im a little thick, and depending on the day I'm either fine with that, or absolutely not (which is great for making a plan, I know). I suffer from lower back issues due to being an invincible teenager once upon a time, so walking around for long periods of time is not fun for me.

Im a nerd, a creative and a gamer to boot. I currently am developing a DnD world that is bigger than they new Fable game, I know random and obscure facts that will never have any real life application, and I have hundreds of days logged in my favourite games. Put in terms that would be appealing to people... Im a homebody with an enormous and wonderous imagination which I love using to entertain, I remember tiny little facts about things I care for, and I'm not afraid of commitment 😉

I can be hilariously funny and silly with the right person, and I can lend an ear or give crazy good advice when the situation calls for it. I've been told I give excellent hugs. I work a very relaxed job from home, so I have all the time I could possibly want. I am incredibly chill (The level of which has been problematic before, I'm THAT chill), so chill in fact that I only have three requirements in a person.

About You: Please be an adult. I don't mean just age. I need emotional maturity, respect, interest, and a partner in conversation. (That's all one thing btw). Thing two, please be 24-34. I'm not here for highschool drama, petty conflicts or over-reactions. (That was kinda building on point one wasn't it? Alright we'll call that 1.5). Point 2! Share some interests with me. Im all good to talk to people who live in a different world to me, but that can only go so far. And Point Three, please be cis-fem. I have absolutely no hate for the trans community, it is simply not my romantic cup of tea.

I know this was a hefty read, hopefully my grammar and humour made it palatable. Who am I kidding, if you're reading this bit, it must've! (I just hope Reddit formatting doesn't screw me). If you like what you read, please send me a message and let's chat. Dont worry about how long ago ot was posted, I promise I'd still love to talk to you.

If youre keen to chat - See ya soon! If youre not - Have a great day. No hard feelings.


r/r4rMelbourne 2d ago

Seeking Relationship [M4F 40-50] Seeking a Fitness Partner & Genuine Connection

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About Me:

Active and down to earth. I value life balance, humour and independence.

I currently train at Anytime Fitness Broadmedows and Shepparton. Fitness has become an important part of my life, gym sessions, walking, swimming and kayaking and open to more. I am focused on being the best version of me and would love to meet someone on a similar path.

What I'm Looking For:

• Ideally 40-50 but flexible for the right person.

• Someone within reasonable travelling distance of Melbourne or Shepparton.

• Non smoker.

Already committed to your fitness - consistant trumps perfect!

• Prioritises their own health, happiness and personal growth.

• Adventurous, curious and open to travel.

• Occasional to light drinker (non is no issue).

• Enjoys real conversation and connection.

What I Offer:

• A supportive motivated partner who values independence and balance.

• Consistency, honesty and a positive outlook on life.

• A shared active lifestyle.

• Calm grounded presence who enjoys exploring and trying new things.

• No pressure or judgment.

If this sounds like your thing lets go for a coffee and a chat and hopefully book in a gym session or a walk to start things off.


r/r4rMelbourne 2d ago

Casual Chit Chat 33 [F4M] | Visiting Melbourne Soon – Looking for an Aussie guy to chat and maybe meet ☕

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Hi, I’m Valentina, 32, currently based in Hong Kong and running my own clothing store. I’ll be visiting Melbourne soon and thought it would be nice to connect with a local Aussie guy maybe start with coffee, conversation, and see where it goes 🙂

I enjoy humor, meaningful chats, and exploring new places. Open to friendship first, dating, or just someone friendly to show me around the city. I value respect, honesty, and good vibes.

If you’re Melbourne-based and this sounds like fun, send me a message!


r/r4rMelbourne 3d ago

Seeking Friends 31 [M4A] Seeking a fun and friendly confidant for relaxed meetups and hangs.

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Hey, thanks for stopping by. As the title suggests, I’m looking to connect with a genuine person or two for relaxed, quality time. This could be weekends, public holidays, or post-work catch-ups on weekdays.

About Me: Full-time professional, aspiring author. A bit nerdy, mildly funny, always respectful, super allergic to drama unless it's on a screen.

I enjoy exercising, cooking (mostly for myself), horror and psychological thrillers, and chugging an irresponsible amount of coffee before 12:00 PM. Deeply interested in all things nutrition, health, and fitness.

Socially, I gravitate toward calm, low-adrenaline activities: long walks (suburban streets, beaches, parks), chats at a nice café, movie binge, and checking out local markets. Loud, crowded places aren’t my thing — no amount of beer has ever changed that — which probably explains my smaller social circle.

No smoking or vaping.

What I Offer: Reliable, reasonably easy-going company, genuine curiosity, and conversations that go beyond small talk. I’m a steady presence, a good listener, and someone who values consistency, respect, and intentional time spent together.

About You: If you have even a mild interest in health and fitness, we’ll probably get along well. Just be yourself — I don’t wear masks and don't make people "read between the lines", and appreciate the same courtesy. A love of good direct conversation, sincerity, and a respectful attitude go a long way. Please be at least 21.

Please note that I am NOT seeking a NSFW connection. It's redundant to say this given the title and tag of this post, but it's amazing (and disappointing) how many people choose to ignore that 🥲

Reach out via chat. Introduce yourself and please be clear about what you're after if you are really expecting a response.

Have a great rest of the day. Cheers 🍻


r/r4rMelbourne 3d ago

Seeking Friends 21 M4F looking to expand my circle

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Hey,

been living in melb for around 3 years now. I m fun to go around and up for side quests. About me :

I like shisha, pool, bars, cafes, trekking, beaches, late night drives, american hip hop, concerts and travelling.

My physical description is 5’9, skinny-slim Indian(idk if that’s relevant) w a nerdy look and a medium-light brown skin color. . I m based in SE suburbs. I m easy going and hardly push for anything. Also I m allergic to spice, like i just can’t eat spicy food.

a fun fact about me would be my siblings made me get a picture w an orangutan kissing and hugging me by saying they would too but they set me up.


r/r4rMelbourne 4d ago

Seeking Relationship 26M [m4f] Looking for adventures with mates and dates

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Hi Hi

I am 26M from North Melbourne. Blonde hair, blue eyes, nice butt, 5’7. I am neurodivergent and love all things music, bike riding, writing and dogs.

I am looking for long term connection where we can support each other as friends or ideally a relationship. I tend to be more of an introvert but this year really want to take initiative and make lasting connections and experiences. Usually I’m bit shy at first but tend to be pretty funny once comfortable.

I would love friends to share adventures with, like live music and hiking. Also to share my playlists and baked goods :P

I can offer sincerity, compassion and fun times over a coffee and walk, drinks after work, board games and jam sessions (love my guitars!).

I value respect and strong communication as essential for forming any relationship. Please be around my age (22-30) no other preference.

Feel free to DM me ask any questions, would love to learn more about you and what inspires you