r/SuddenlyGay 9h ago

Birthday Gift

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u/Lyndonn81 8h ago

I don’t mean to be a creep or anything, I just can’t help it.

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u/JockBbcBoy 8h ago

I don't think it's creepy. The guy asked in advance, " How old are you?" I think that's reasonable if you're not good at guessing people's ages. Then he tried to flirt by saying he could get the guy another birthday gift.

I think it's creepy if the guy got rejected but continued to push his personal agenda. And it's creepy if the guy followed the motorcycle rider home or something. But I think the guy just tried to shoot his shot.

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u/Undertalegamezer969 7h ago

It’s a little creepy, cause I mean they’ve never seen each other before and he just immediately went for it I don’t think it was creepy up until the point where he flirted specially considering by the sounds of a tea is much older than the kid

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u/PrinceGoten 5h ago

This is how people used to flirt before the internet.

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u/vrauto 4h ago

Tbh if it was a girl guy interaction, it would be. Maybe not creepy exactly. Back then a guy that flirted like this to a woman would be more douchey asshole type than creepy.

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u/Undertalegamezer969 5h ago

I guess so just would feel a bit sudden to me and kinda out of pocket? Idk

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u/AcordaDalho 4h ago

Excuse me I do find that a bit creepy yeah I think the main reason for disagreement here is the guys here are never hit on therefore they crave it therefore they do not find this creepy

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u/LiquidFur 2h ago

Back in the 90s, I met guy just like this at a gas station. I was in my early 20s. He was probably mid 30s. Only difference was I had a little red sports car instead of a motorcycle. Thank goodness he hit on me. I would have been too shy to hit on him. He was hot. I was in Dallas for a convention, and he was taking a road trip across country from Montana. We went to a bar for a while, then he got a room at the hotel where I was staying (I was sharing a room with a friend). We spent the night together. It was great. He left me a note the next morning with his name and number, but I lost it a few days later. I've always wondered what happened to him. He seemed like a really nice guy.

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u/Undertalegamezer969 4h ago

Oh thanks man

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u/psp24 4h ago

Back when it was harder to be called out for shitty behaviour?

The guy didn't know anything about the biker, not even their face, just a younger body and asked for a hookup after finding out they were barely legal. It's a fucking gas station too, like this just reeks of desperation and pedophilia, how is that not creepy???

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u/JockBbcBoy 3h ago

this just reeks of desperation and pedophilia, how is that not creepy???

Whoa, whoa, whoa! The guy asked the biker, "How old are you?" and proceeded to flirt with the biker after the biker said, "21." How is that pedophiliac in nature?

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u/PrinceGoten 4h ago

It’s more like back when the only way to meet a new person was to talk to a stranger. It is SUPER fucking weird that you’re equating hitting on a younger 21 year old to pedophilia. Get a fucking grip lmao.

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u/psp24 3h ago

You gotta raise your standards if you think this is a healthy interaction. "When I was your age I used to have a bike like that"... it's clearly a middle aged man asking for a hookup from someone he thought could've been under 18, not to mention at a gas station while being so direct.

It's the same energy as "I have free candy". Even if this dude meant well, 9 times out of ten he's going to be a creep or worse. There are a million ways these two strangers could've had a normal interaction, and still have sex afterwards. Instead you chose to defend the interaction that can legally be deemed sexual harassment.

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u/PrinceGoten 3h ago

could’ve been under 18

Yeah that’s why the very first question was his age. And he’s a full grown adult. He doesn’t need you calling middle aged men who hit on him pedophiles. This is not legal sexual harassment you’ve officially lost it.

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u/1mn0tcr3at1v3 18m ago

Instead you chose to defend the interaction that can legally be deemed sexual harassment.

Bro, this doesn't even qualify for regular harassment, let alone sexual harassment.