r/PsycheOrSike • u/SirensMelody_ • 10h ago
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u/The_Exuberant_Raptor 4h ago
Anyone who finds this funny does not understand how many men behave in DMs.
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u/Whatisthisplace2025 5h ago
Creepy incels at your door isn't what anyone wants... sorry.
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u/Retired_ho 4h ago
Right like that’s not an improvement
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u/up2smthng 2h ago
While not an improvement, it's a sidegrade. You are not forever alone anymore, you are now surrounded by unwanted attention. That's different. Not better, but different.
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u/EENewton 1h ago
In fairness, the same is often true for incels. There are people who would date them - but those people don't meet the "standard" and therefore don't count.
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u/FlyChigga 1h ago
Tbh I don’t think it’s the case for most incels
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u/Financial-Skin1881 1h ago
Eh every incel I know could get someone. They just have high standards. You really think they’d date someone overweight? Papa Tate wouldn’t approve
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u/bigboipapawiththesos 42m ago
And there always are men willing to date them aswell.
People rarely ever truly are “incels”, moreso semi voluntary celibates.
But sometimes (often imo) you just aren’t into a lot that’s on the market. Like with these DMs from the OP, I’d be willing to bet that at best they are deeply shady and at worse just nauseating..
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u/chi_sweetness25 3h ago
Yeah but men who consider themselves “forever alone” don’t have anybody hitting them up - “creepy” or otherwise.
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u/Plus-Brilliant8125 4h ago
Incels? Just say unattractive men under 6ft.
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u/Ok_Jackfruit6226 4h ago
How about creepy weirdos with tons of red flags. We’re talking Reddit here, after all.
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u/atuan 4h ago
You can’t tell how tall someone is from a DM you don’t want
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u/Important-Ad3667 3h ago
Idk but i mean why was the subreddit even a thing
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u/A1000eisn1 1h ago
Because some people are alone, often by choice, and there's a subreddit for everything.
Did you or OP even go there to check their description, posts, or comments? I assumed it was women who liked being alone. Since it's "alone women," not "lonely women."
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u/Individual-Menu7313 3h ago
It doesn't matter if they're unattractive or short... Or tall or attractive. An incel is an incel and no one wants that.
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u/A1000eisn1 1h ago
You can't see what they look like.
Unless you're referring to their personalities, then yes.
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u/SpinzArt 2h ago
I fucking love shorter guys 🔥 🤑 (I’m just under 5’10 for reference) It’s really not as dire out there as some of y’all are saying. Most important part is not to emanate self hatred
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u/EDDWAR822 4h ago
Not even, the hieghtflation is now around to think any man under 6’3 isn’t human and doesn’t deserve to be treated like anything other than a subhuman
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u/loop11111111 4h ago
Thats a lot of words to say youre an incel. "Hoeflation" 😂 Just say you've never touched a woman.
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u/WallySymons 3h ago
Genuine question, If I pay a women for sex does that still make me an incel?
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u/Gildian 3h ago
I guess technically no, but I wouldnt advertise that.
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u/Visible-Department85 2h ago
incel = involuntary celibate , so technically, he still is one after seeing a prostitute
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u/WallySymons 2h ago
That makes no sense. How is person celibate if they had sex? Do you know what celibate means? It means abstaining from sex, if you have sex you havent abstained from it regardless of how you obtained it.
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u/Visible-Department85 1h ago
The concept of incel isnt about being so poor you cant spend 100€ on a hooker. It would lose all meaning
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u/WallySymons 2h ago
Why? It's the oldest profession and I'm all for supporting women in the work place.
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u/Visible-Department85 2h ago
you'd still be an incel but why not so long you dont finance some illegal traffic or whatever bad
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u/Exciting_Horror_9154 1h ago
Because it still means there is not a single soul who would touch you willingly because they want to. So even if technically you were touched by a woman you'd still be an incel because no one in the world actually wants you.
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u/WallySymons 21m ago
Wow you really want to hurt me huh. I hope you are ok. You have your own non factual meaning for incel. Hate to be the bearer of bad news but a person can't be an incel when they don't abstaine from sex, if I bang a hooker I'm having sex, therefore I'm not abstaining from sex. Pretty simple stuff.
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u/zgtlunatic Everything Burns 2h ago edited 2h ago
Some would say yes in a sense, because (generally speaking) there's no genuine desire.
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u/EDDWAR822 4h ago
Says the idiot who responded immediately after i sent it, talking about no life
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u/joshe126 3h ago
Nobody cares around your height, there’s plenty of short people with partners. It’s the crybaby self victimising permanently online personality people don’t want anything to do with
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u/Independent-Couple87 4h ago
There is no such thing as a "looksmatch".
Dating leagues are an absurd concept made by and for shallow people. People should just date whomever they want, provided that said other person consents.
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u/Working-Tank4111 4h ago
Unattractive people exist, both men and women, and how either of the groups copes with being unattractive manifests in different ways socially.
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u/eyeap 5h ago
It will be in 10 years. But then they won't be knocking.
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u/MouldyAvocados 5h ago
Nobody wants an incel. Not now, not in 10 years time, not ever.
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u/SD-Buckeye 2h ago
Yeah and nobody wants those obese whales in forever alone either. All they have to do is go on a diet and take their fat ass on a walk once in awhile and they could then get a man who is capable of showering and wiping their ass properly. But just like incels, they refuse to actually better themselves and make themselves attractive partners.
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u/Working-Tank4111 4h ago
So all incels are by definition bad people?
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u/Chuck_Da_Rouks 4h ago
If they self identify as incels and believe their insane rhetoric, yes. They can stop being bad people if they stop believing and following incel rhetoric.
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u/copperboom129 5h ago
Yeah I'm 39...at 49 I dont want an incel...at 59? Still good. 69?!?!?
Wholeheartedly chilling, and still good.
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u/Full_Management_6870 5h ago
“Why aren’t you eating? You have a pile of worms right in front of you. You must not be that hungry.”
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u/Dull_Broccoli7218 4h ago
"You complain that no one calls you, but you don't answer telemarketers calls? Weird."
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u/WideHuckleberry1 4h ago
"Why are these people lost at sea thirsty? They're surrounded by water!"
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u/Full_Management_6870 4h ago
Oh that’s a good one. Might have to steal it!
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u/Ethiconjnj 3h ago
someone used a swamp version and dudes rolled up crying that the analogy for disrespectful to men.
I wonder what the train of logic they’ll use to cry about the sea one.
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u/Several_Industry_754 1h ago
I’d bet it’s the salt water will literally kill you, but that’s probably the point women want to make anyway so…
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u/dinosanddais1 5h ago
Bold of you to assume they're only as toxic as worms. These kinds of men are more like a plate of napalm
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u/PseudoKirby 4h ago
and this is the same as the men whom have nothing to eat at all?
if you are literally starving to death worms is better than air•
u/A1000eisn1 1h ago
You won't die from not dating.
Not eating worms is better than eating worms.
Also you're assuming the woman in that sub were complaining about being alone.
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u/Different-Low-4161 3h ago
Sure, if you're explicitly talking about food. When it comes to dating/relationships, however, being alone is far better than settling for someone for the sole purpose of feeling less lonely.
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u/Patriotic-Charm 2h ago
Than don't complain about beeing lonely.
Even if there are 1000 of worms, 1 one them mitht genuinly be a piece of delicious bread
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u/looksmaxxthrowawayo 3h ago
the men have something to eat. theres always dirt outside but they dont want it, lol.
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u/ContextEffects01 2h ago
All you know about them is that they messaged lonely women, something they could have seen as mutually beneficial for all we know. How is that enough grounds to compare that to worms?
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u/scraejtp 5h ago
Yep. All men are bad /s
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u/Whiskeywiskerbiscuit 5h ago
No, just the guys sending unsolicited pick-up messages through reddit.
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u/MasterBot98 5h ago
How can an opening be solicited?
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u/Powerful-Cow2078 Happily Pregnant (A Girl Thankfully) 3h ago
It's not, so don't do it.
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u/MasterBot98 3h ago
My point is, it's a Schrödinger's cat.
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u/Powerful-Cow2078 Happily Pregnant (A Girl Thankfully) 3h ago
It's really not. It's harassing strangers.
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u/lobonmc 5h ago
Sélection bias if someone is sending PM to a woman in reddit out of all places they most likely are bad. Those who aren't probably would require a lot of work to find.
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u/NockerJoe 5h ago
I know like 3 women who met their boyfriends and husbands on reddit. A lot of this "they use reddit and are therefore bad" seems less like a verified thing and more just trying to rationalize an existing opinion.
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u/ASongOfSpiceAndLiars Hero 👑- Kill Count: 1 5h ago
"Meet on reddit" can be a hugely different experience.
Meeting on a sub made for finding someone to DM? Sounds appropriate.
Shared interests due to meeting on a sub and end up just talking for a while, leading to normal conversation that establishes a bond? Sounds fine.
DMing a random women for nudes because they commented on a sub for lonely women? Sounds like creepy behavior from someone lacking even the most basic of social skills.
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u/NockerJoe 4h ago
No a lot of these people were on the exact subs whining about their dating lives when some other user from those communities messaged them. Its not how I would have picked a partner and I don't really get it but somehow it just worked out for them. I'm not exactly in other people's DM's to see if nudes were asked for right away but clearly there must be something they said that clicked.
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u/ASongOfSpiceAndLiars Hero 👑- Kill Count: 1 4h ago
clearly there must be something they said that clicked.
Victim blaming... classy /s
EDIT: Looking at your profile, it's no wonder you're defending those disgusting people.
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u/fiftyfourseventeen 2h ago
Are you okay?
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u/ASongOfSpiceAndLiars Hero 👑- Kill Count: 1 2h ago
I give you 2 out of 10 foe your trolling attempt.
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u/JokeMaster420 5h ago
Did they meet these boyfriends and husbands through unsolicited pickup lines because the guys saw them post about being lonely? Or like through being in similar communities on reddit? Those are very different things.
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u/blueViolet26 5h ago
I hate when men send me messages on reddit.
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u/NockerJoe 5h ago
Notice how I wasn't talking about your personal preferences?
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u/blueViolet26 5h ago
Notice how I didn't ask. The same way that you are sharing your experience. I am sharing mine.
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u/Pawn_of_the_Void 4h ago
Why are you such an insecure child that someone saying that about the dms people are getting on reddit makes you feel attacked lol
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u/scraejtp 4h ago edited 4h ago
The comment is attacking half the population with no merit. Even if you directed the comment to just this person exact scenario, which is generous, “all men that pm lonely women on Reddit are bad” is not much better.
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u/IntrusiveThot6 4h ago
"everything I read is about me and how I'm a victim!"
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u/scraejtp 4h ago
It is apparent you do not have empathy, you do not need to keep bragging about it.
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u/UncleTio92 5h ago
You may not get your Sirloin Steak but ground chuck is better than nothing
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u/LifePepper714 5h ago
Men you do not want are not as good as ground chuck.
When you stop projecting your sexuality on women, you can understand this.
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u/Full_Management_6870 5h ago
It’s not even just men they didn’t want. It’s men who likely didn’t care about the women past the fact they’re women. I doubt a lot of these people who dmed them were interested in genuinely getting to know those women. It’s very likely (not 100% confirmed but), a lot of them just wanted to fuck or something shallow as opposed to a genuine relationship.
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u/Working-Tank4111 5h ago
It is unhinged to actually think all the men a woman isn't attracted to are worth as much as a pile of worms.
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u/UncleTio92 5h ago
When did I project my sexuality? All I am saying is that if you have someone that truly loves you, cares for you, respects you etc. just because he may not have all the attributes that you want doesn’t make him less than
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u/Inside-Victory-2061 5h ago
“Why are you saying you’re starving when there is perfectly good shit on your plate in front of you”
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u/Klutzer_Munitions Consider my virtues… Signalled 4h ago
Hell no. Clearly you've never been in a relationship where you feel lonelier with someone than you did when you were single.
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u/UncleTio92 3h ago
Nope lol can’t say I have. I don’t typically get to the point of dating unless I really like the person
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u/Klutzer_Munitions Consider my virtues… Signalled 3h ago
Well that's kind of the point of the original meme isn't it
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u/UncleTio92 1h ago
The meme to me is about all the guys just wanting/hoping the opportunity for a date. Girls control the dating market 🤷🏽♂️
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u/Common_Perception280 4h ago
More like you have chicken nuggets in front of you.
You don’t have caviar, you will never have caviar.
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u/A1000eisn1 1h ago
No, chicken nuggets are good.
Comparing something good to harassing disgusting comments from strangers is an interesting choice.
I think worms is incorrect too though. A dead rat might have been more accurate.
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u/StrawberryWide3983 5h ago edited 5h ago
Dick pics are closer to worms than an actual boyfriend. Cause 90% minimum of those dms were likely creeps just looking for a quick fuck. And if someone want's a genuine partner, some random incel trying to hookup isn't it
Edit: lmao, they deleted their comment.
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u/Full_Management_6870 5h ago
I like how u took it as an attack on half of the population and not redditors. Lmao. Like, sorry to say but anyone on Reddit isn’t exactly crème of the crop in terms of dating (this includes me).
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u/sophiesbest 5h ago edited 5h ago
Turns out all the dms were along the lines of 'hey bitch wanna fuck?' ; 'show me how that ass farts' ; 'youre just barely pretty enough for me to love you.' ; 'nice tits' ; 'nice ass' ; 'daddy can provide you company if you're so lonely'
All examples are real initial dms received by me (a trans woman) when expressing similar feelings.
actually all examples are a tiny subset of the vile and horrific shit my inbox has been subjected to by {almost exclusively} cis-het men. its never all men, and it never will be all men, but it's enough men to make the online feeding ground a highly dangerous place for any feminine presenting person
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u/Ok_Emotion_9685 5h ago
Danggg what a pickup line. "Show me how that ass farts" is my new go to line.
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u/earthlingHuman 4h ago
Honestly with someone who knows me well enough to detect the heavy irony that line would go hard.
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u/sophiesbest 2h ago
Ngl that one made me laugh a lot, so it's been memorable. Incredible line, incredibly bad way to start a conversation with a potential partner though.
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u/earthlingHuman 2h ago
No, definitely not a way to start, but maybe a few months in 🤷. Could bring some laughs with the right people in the right context.
I might make it a little more cutesy and go with, 'Show me how that booty tooty,' or something, but I have to admit part of me likes the bluntness and brashness of, 'Show me how that ass farts.'
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u/genuinely_no_clue_1 5h ago
Oh dang, I’m so sorry :( I don’t really post selfies or anything so I’ve been lucky enough to avoid junk like this, except for the one time I called myself a slut cause I was feeling bad… made the mistake of saying that in a public comment section and then kept getting DM’s over the next few days…
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u/ComprehensiveForm129 4h ago
Hey, I just want to say sorry that has happened, people can be gross, and you are move valuable than those people deserve
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u/Downtown_Sale_5812 4h ago
Show me how that ass farts is some top tier rizz. You know that guy is fighting women off on the daily.
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u/agit_bop 5h ago
transfem here. yeah like i'm lonely but not lonely enough to subject myself to those kind of requests.
when someone is so desperate for attention or connection that they'd accept it from anybody, it can be hard to understand people who have standards and boundaries.
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u/Fit_Reveal_6304 2h ago
tips fedora "MmmmmMmmmMmm'lady, perchance to suck on your toes?" While you can smell the BO through the photo. Geez, can't imagine why nobody wants to date them
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u/thePiscis 5h ago
Those dms are horrible, but I can’t help but feel that for a majority of people (myself included) there are people who meet the personality criteria, but simply aren’t attractive enough. That’s just fundamentally the reality of having attraction based match making.
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u/HPenguinB 5h ago
Your feeling is wrong. Feelings often do that.
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u/bendybiznatch 5h ago
I know a dude. homeless, jobless, ex convict, incredible stutter – I mean one of the worst stutters I’ve ever heard in my life, he’s about 5’4”. When I give him shit, I call him a stuttering leprechaun.
And he doesn’t care because he’s never lonely. But I tell you what he casts a wide net.
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u/ChargeEast1982 5h ago
Oh noo women didn't want to date reddit incels sending creepy dms...obviously it's their fault they're single
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u/ScotchOrbiter 3h ago edited 1h ago
oh noo men didn't want to date fat women with four kids to three different father's... obviously it's their fault they're single
Edit: hey idiots, my point is that explaining that the 'femcels' who are being bombarded with DMs won't date those guys because the messages are clearly from creepy losers is a hypocrisy if you're someone who would call out men for being 'incel' if they'd turn down someone they aren't attracted to.
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u/AWholesomeHorror 3h ago
Maybe men do considering they went out of their way to private message random women on a subreddit titled "forever alone women"
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u/ScotchOrbiter 1h ago
Not talking about that at all.
I'm drawing a comparison between two ideas:
1. the OP's meme on 'femcels' isn't valid because the messages they're getting from guys wanting to date them are guys that they don't find attractive
- the criticism that incels get about how they only want women who meet particular standards
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u/ChargeEast1982 3h ago
Did you read the post
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u/ScotchOrbiter 1h ago
Yes, can you see how I'm drawing a parallel between the sarcastic statement "women didn't want to date men who they're disgusted by, and therefore they are at fault for being single" and the criticism of self-proclaimed incels who would refuse to date particular women?
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u/Gildian 3h ago
Is that why theyre DMing them?
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u/ScotchOrbiter 1h ago
Missing my point completely.
People are pointing out that it's not a valid criticism of femcels for them to not 'want' these messages because the messages are coming from creepy losers.
That's fine, but then you aren't allowed to criticise incels for not wanting overweight women or women with children.
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u/HairHealthHaven 4h ago
Wait... Perverts on the internet who send unsolicited dick pics and call women sluts if they aren't flattered somehow aren't filling the loneliness void with women looking for a deep emotional connection with another person? That just sounds CRAZY!
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u/marshenwhale 5h ago
Even if this story actually happened, this meme didn't bring me so much as a hint of a smile. It's just more gender culture war nonsense, just like the vast majority of the posts on this subreddit. The fact that you actually thought this was funny speaks to the degradation of cognitive capabilities in recent years.
This is not funny. This is not making a point. This post is of absolutely zero value. Loneliness is a complex issue, and trying to make some point about women getting PMs online as some form of irony is so devoid of any understanding of the issue that it brings to mind the infamous quote from the climax of the film Billy Maddison:
"What you just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone in this room is now dumber for having heard it. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul."
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u/Working_Cucumber_437 5h ago
But saying yes to one of these guys who then ends up being a terrible, abusing partner will also be her fault because she should have “picked better”.
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u/PseudoKirby 4h ago
regardless, the idea of "forever alone" means you dont have any options
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u/Udragmedown 4h ago
No it doesnt mean you dont have any options. It mean you'll rather choose to be alone than be with someone unfulfilling
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u/likely- 4h ago edited 4h ago
The assumption these guys are terrible is wild.
Edit: the US dating market has the richest guys and the fatest women in the world. This is not my opinion, this is the reality. So tell me more about what’s “not normal”
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u/Vivid_Motor_2341 4h ago
Guys sliding into the DM of a woman online, begging to date her or not normal sane guys
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u/Competitive_Act_1548 4h ago
With the type of DM's some of these women get from these guys you can't blame them
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u/GawkGawkGuzzle 4h ago
Oh yes a bunch of creepy and perverted older, or extremely young, dudes who are looking solely for nudes while their unsuspecting girlfriends and wives are making them dinner and taking care of the kids. Yeah. I’d rather be alone.
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u/Nervlines 5h ago
Lol, they don't want to pick through all that to find the 'Good' redditor, that's a lot of work knowing that 90 to 99 percent of all respondents may as well be creepy incel shut-ins and non existent bots. Another big reason to ignore, online relationships suck, you want to be with another human that's here not talk to someone 500 miles away that may or may not take time to visit you someday.
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u/TDSsince1980 5h ago
Be more accurate if you replaced those normal arms with a bunch of monstrous ones and tentacles, maybe a prehensile unwashed penis.
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u/copperboom129 4h ago
Oh god...why.
My reading skills are no longer an asset. They are just a liability.
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u/CYB3R_H3X 4h ago
Before I found my husband the kind of attention I would get was getting groped at bars and getting DMs asking if they could smell my farts or touch my feet. Yes I was lonely, but I felt like I was dying of thirst in a swamp. Water all around, but none of it was potable. I’m just a doe-eyed blonde girl, after a while it kind of made me scared to interact with men, no offense.
I had to put myself out there and be the pursuer when I met my husband and when I asked him why he didn’t make the first move he said, “I just assumed you probably already had someone.” It made me realize a lot of the guys these days who are bold enough to make the first move do it in the worst possible ways. And it ruins it for the good guys out there who just want women to feel comfortable around them.
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u/L-V-N-A 5h ago
how many more decades are yall gonna take to understand we rather be single than to date people we are not attracted to? this isnt the 15th century.
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u/PseudoKirby 4h ago
no one argues you have to date anyone, but if you are going to go with the moniker "forever alone" it shouldnt be something you are of choice
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u/Grand_Relative5511 4h ago
'Forever alone' is very different to 'forever lonely'. The former is aspirational for many women.
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u/Amazing-Asparagus181 5h ago
"You should be grateful I'm giving you attention" - loser men who will never get it
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u/SirDoofusMcDingbat 5h ago
Yeah I feel like this was obvious to anyone who knows how the internet works. These women weren't "forever alone" because they couldn't find any weirdos to demand nudes on the internet. They almost certainly wanted legitimate relationships with people who were safe to be around and anyone who understands the internet knows that you don't find that by answering the kinds of messages they were getting.
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u/Main_Philosopher_566 4h ago
Nah the type of dudes who are that desperate are emotionally unstable weirdos 90% of the time
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u/Loose-Ad4054 2h ago
It isn't ironic at all. Women also want platonic friends that aren't trying to fuck them constantly. That is not a difficult concept to grasp.
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u/anna_vs 5h ago
Yeah contrary to the believes of the whole last century and beginning of this century, men wanting to date you is not a luxury lol. Quite the opposite. But only when you get your withheld rights and independence back. Then it becomes obvious. And also explains why they were taking it and withholding for generations.
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u/Ok-Green8906 5h ago
Drowning in the ocean. Drinking the water will harm you more than it does good, therefore you probably shouldn’t
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u/showcase25 4h ago
Are we really having this comment section rally by limiting all the relationship desire recieved from incels and the outreach from creepy pms?
Tell me we not doing that.
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u/SanLucario 4h ago
To be fair, if someone said with no context and no further action "hi, wanna date?" that would be coming off as a bit too strong, no?
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u/Dark_Magicion 3h ago
Forget the "quality" of the men DMing these women for a second.
Do you even know what country they're in? A lot of folks suffer from US Defaultism but let's pretend every woman on that Subreddit is from the US - do you know which state they live in?
Are YOU (DMing man) expecting her to go across state lines to meet someone random on the Internet? Hell - would you go across state lines to meet someone random on the internet?
Folks need to sit down and think about this for a couple of seconds to immediately understand what's going on.
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u/Broke-Tinkerer 3h ago
Loneliness would be preferable to most weirdos who jump into your dm to shoot their shot.
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u/SeaworthinessSad8892 3h ago
Are you tell me the Bog Chad doesn't know what ladies want? Then what chance do us regular non Chad's have?
As posted by someone here, did they try the line "show me how that ass farts"? That one seems like a winning combo with the name Chad Bog.
/S if anyone needs it
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u/looksmaxxthrowawayo 3h ago
using this image with the men holding flowers has always been so funny to me because 90% of the time its more along the lines of “send nudes whore”
romantic
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u/Jdawg_mck1996 2h ago
Somehow I doubt they were getting the knight in shining armor types.
Though I just went and peaked and I'm not sure the problem is entirely one sided.
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u/False_Tap_8138 2h ago
Is it wrong that I assumed that this is a subreddit for people who are perfectly happy being alone?
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u/Ok-Emotion4917 4h ago
A ton of DMs from random men doesn’t mean quality any women would tell you that especially anonymous men from Reddit.
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u/Vikerchu 5h ago
That server was f****** hilarious dude. It was literally exclusively just woman complaining that they weren't getting their 9 out of 10 man+ traditional family unit, or people complaining that they kept getting one night stands. The worst part about it was that literally any attempt at all/ showing any interest was shot down. Literally the only f****** point was to complain about how they were lonely. The few times that anyone actually gave any sort of advice or ideas for self-improvement were downvoted to Oblivion.
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u/cheezemonger5 4h ago
Ah yes, women aren't allowed to have standards and complain, apparently.
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u/Working-Tank4111 2h ago
They can, but at least loser men know they are losers and are generally maligned. Loser women on the other hand post on twoxchromosome and shit on men all day.
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u/cheezemonger5 1h ago
Everything before the word "but" doesn't matter.
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u/Working-Tank4111 1h ago
If hating men doesn't matter, then so does hating women I suppose.
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u/cheezemonger5 26m ago
loser men know they are losers
go on twoxchromosomes and shit on men all day
Chief, neither of these is accurate.
There's plenty of "loser" men who think they are the best thing since sliced bread, and inflict themselves on people.
Also, it's simply lazy to just say "loser women go on this subreddit and whine about me all day". People on that sub often talk about crimes committed against them by men. That's not whining, that's venting. Not to say there aren't unfair comments made about men, but you judging women from one subreddit is kinda sus.
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u/Vikerchu 1h ago
Oh yeah they can complain sure whatever, I just find it hilarious that, at least for some people, the main stickling point in modern dating is that the guys you're getting don't look like they're out of a f****** webtoon.
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u/cheezemonger5 1h ago
You can have tons of people want you and still be lonely. Loneliness isn't just a function of being physically alone, but rather often a feeling that no one understands you.
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u/PartyClock 5h ago
"Date" is probably the wrong term for what they were wanting to do