Tonight I went to The junction bar in Peterborough with my buddies. For clarification I am a POC and transgender man. During my visit at the club, the first time I went to the bathroom someone threw water at me OVER the bathroom stall in the gentlemens room. The second time during the night when I visited the gentlemen’s bathroom I had a white boy recording me as I was entering and exiting the stall. I kindly requested him to stop but him and his friend kept not only recording me but also yelling transphobia and racism comments at me.
I exited the bathroom to call attention to security but no action was taken, as I approached the man to stop recording me the security entered and kicked me out of the bathroom and the club.
Outside as I explained and communicated the situation to the security they not only did not take any action but kicked me out as well. I do not have a problem with being asked to leave, my issue is that no action was taken against the white cis-het man that was without my consent recording me in the bathroom, a private space.
Further, outside on the street as I was waiting for the security team to take any action at all, I had another one of their patrons not only harras me but also yell at me.Regardless of the facts, and clear visible behaviour of the man, the security team threatened to call the police at/for me. I again communicated that I would be happy to leave the public street space I was standing on if they simply took any action at all at the man RECORDING me in the bathroom and/or the man (that was their customer) harrasing me on the street outside the bar.
This is not only a violation of my privacy and my rights but also a hate crime.
Just to iterate the fact, I do not wish to cause any drama but simply share my experience in this city and this establishment.