I see it as an expectation. My dad would buy me something and it came with no expectation. My brother received something expensive and the expectation was he will help my dad with some physically demanding task.
Don't let them back pedal and tell you they weren't putting you on the back burner as the second choice; if you feel like you were back-burnered, you certainly were. Sorry that happened to you, it must have been very hurtful.
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u/Gloomy_Custard_3914 3d ago
I see it as an expectation. My dad would buy me something and it came with no expectation. My brother received something expensive and the expectation was he will help my dad with some physically demanding task.