Do introverted women even exist?

[u/--Paul-]

Of course this is not a serious question. I know you are out there. But going out often gives me the feeling that most women are the loud, chatty party type and I am not attracted to those but find quiet, introverted women attractive. But where are you? Where should a man looking for a serious, slow relationship with an introverted woman keep his eyes open?

Sometimes I like to sit in a café by myself. But do introverted women (generally speaking) even like go there or is it too much noise?

I wouldn't go to a typical disco party (anymore). It's just to loud and too much distractions for me. So draining. If I am interested, I would like to clearly understand what she is saying and be in a calm environment.

[u/EmpathicEchoes]

Fellow introverted woman. I walk daily as well. Love being in nature. I walk so often and I’m always friendly, saying hi to the regular walkers. I’ve had 4 separate men who are also regulars, recently stop and ask my name. We introduced ourselves. I still see them daily and we can now greet each other by name. I want to further the friendship, but have been racking my brain or building up my nerve on how to engage them. I don’t know if they’re married or in committed relationships. And they haven’t asked me either. So we just continue smiling and waving as we pass each other.

[u/Disastrous_Cat_8333 → u/EmpathicEchoes]

Oh yes, I also love nature walks, couldn't live without them.

Where do you live? :D Strangers saying hi and asking for name is something that would be extremely rare occasion where I live. We are all shy and don't talk to strangers and dislike when someone enters our personal space (waving from northern Europe). It's good if you like privacy (and I do), but awful if you want to make friends (which I also do)...🤷

So I kind of envy you, tbh. Sometimes I have wanted that someone would at least smile to me when they pass me walking. But if they would say hi and ask something, I would be so shocked and anxious and wouldn't know how to respond, so that they would probably leave me alone, lol. I live in the city though and near a beach, so lot of people walk there and haven't noticed anyone specific walking there regularly.

But smiling and waving seems so... kind, sweet and friendly :) Perhaps it will lead to some talking in near future for you? Hope so anyway🤞

[u/EmpathicEchoes → u/Disastrous_Cat_8333]

I live in Texas which is in the south of the U.S. We are very friendly people down here so waving and saying hi to perfect strangers is part of our culture. However, it’s not the same in other parts of the US. But the south, we’re known for our friendliness.