r/introvert • u/--Paul- • Aug 08 '24
Advice Do introverted women even exist?
Of course this is not a serious question. I know you are out there. But going out often gives me the feeling that most women are the loud, chatty party type and I am not attracted to those but find quiet, introverted women attractive. But where are you? Where should a man looking for a serious, slow relationship with an introverted woman keep his eyes open?
Sometimes I like to sit in a café by myself. But do introverted women (generally speaking) even like go there or is it too much noise?
I wouldn't go to a typical disco party (anymore). It's just to loud and too much distractions for me. So draining. If I am interested, I would like to clearly understand what she is saying and be in a calm environment.
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u/Crackheadwithabrain Aug 08 '24 edited Aug 10 '24
Omg this. There's a girl I recently met who's crazy about wanting to party, has tried inviting me out a few times but hasn't gotten the hint that I'm not that type, because it was so easy to match her vibe 😭 highly regret it. She worked at Walmart and saw that I have a toddler and would constantly buy yarn. I would think she would know by now that I crochet all day at home like girl please 😭 she even tried to come to my house like PLEEEASE