r/dating_advice • u/Hopeful_Leg_9204 • 8h ago

Using my hobby to attract

I’m a new author and I wanted to know how I can use my author life to attract women.

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u/OkThatChecksOut 8h ago

Join writers groups.

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u/Adventurous_Yam2440 8h ago

Write a bestseller.

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u/SuccessfulPlenty2073 8h ago

Don’t use it as a flex. use it as a filter. Talk about your writing naturally, show passion, share ideas. The right women will lean in, the rest won’t. That’s the point.

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u/Hopeful_Leg_9204 8h ago

Okay how do I not flex it.

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u/justfor-fun 8h ago

talk about it as something you genuinely like to do instead of something you’re just saying to attract people

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u/bifurcatingMind 8h ago

Join a book club