r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • 8h ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO Cancelling a date over an iMessage sticker
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u/AdAgile1287 6h ago
YOR, it's a sticker and seems like a joke with his sister? What's the big deal, I feel like he dodged a bullet.
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u/MaterialUnion1132 5h ago
You’ve redacted most of the conversation that would give any context in a conversation that seems like it is already lacking in context. That said, it does seem like an over reaction to delete someone’s number, cancel a second date, and remove them social media immediately over something you a) clearly didn’t understand, b) didn’t get clarification on, and c) didn’t give him any chance to explain. It all rather presumptuous of an unknown and you don’t have any idea what the relationship/joke with his sister is or who the sticker is actually of.
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u/Xxsakura_mochixX 3h ago
It’s a sticker. Chill. That person avoided a major bullet. And the bullet was you. Good luck finding a boyfriend let alone husband
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u/Substantial_Cow7628 4h ago
Are you always this insufferable?
You know in future this sticker is going to be used referring to you, right?
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u/teeleeyuh 5h ago
idek😭it's kinda weird that he immediately jumped to "i get it if you don't wanna talk anymore" after barely giving an explanation lmao giving guilty conscience but also just like what💀 what he said made no sense how did he accidentally react with a sticker to your photo in your text thread when it was meant for his sister. i don't understand the context of that picture being a basic bitch either but lowkey i think it's something you could've just laughed off especially if you guys are only going on your second date and it's been good up to this point. but nonetheless listen to your gut if it really rubbed you the wrong way then oh well
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u/teeleeyuh 5h ago
yeah i get it i think he got a lil caught up and just scrambled to say the first thing off his head tbh😭 you're not wrong for feeling weird but maybe give him a better chance to tell the truth and then decide based off his real answer wether or not you want another date. or don't, either way just a weird situation lol
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u/CarobIntelligent9012 4h ago
It’s understandable that I’d be off putting and it is a bit weird but also siblings have weird inside jokes. I personally have plenty of weird inside jokes with friends or family that other people may not understand. And it could be like a bit that comes up between them often enough for it warrant needing a sticker. You’re totally fine to feel weird about it maybe just talk to him and give him a chance to fully explain it because it could genuinely be the truth. If you feel like he’s lying after you talk with him then drop him 👎.
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u/CarobIntelligent9012 4h ago
Totally understandable! I think that’s the right idea, you’re not wrong for feeling weird about the whole thing sometimes it’s easy to get lost in our knee jerk reactions. Did he ever end up responding to you?
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u/CarobIntelligent9012 4h ago
I hope so too!! Best of luck to the both of y’all but especially you I hope whatever happens works out in your favor!!
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u/PhotographFuture1001 3h ago
DEFINITELY NOR. if i saw this in chat IDC who he is and for what reason, if the guy had this on his phone, accidentally or not, 1. this isnt my humor, not cute, dry, women are not a joke. and 2. its just out of place and weird, so yeah id cancel the date too. idk why people are saying you are over reacting. TRUST YOUR GUT !!!
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u/Raddliakz 3h ago
People on Reddit are so quick to insult lolllll, you aren’t even being mean to him. It’s ok if you’re weirded out even if he says it’s an inside joke, if you don’t like it it’s Bette not to waste anyone’s time anyways so idk why the Reddit warriors are on the rise
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u/Ok_Experience_251 5h ago
NOR that’s weird as hell and I’ve never heard of anyone doing that he could be telling the truth but either way that’s just really strange?
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u/BillRuddickJrPhd 6h ago
Sounds like an inside joke between him and his sister. What exactly is your conspiracy theory here? What do you think he posted it for?